The Relationship University (TRU)

Advanced Resources for Creating Conscious Relationships

When we first came together, nearly thirty years ago, there were no self-help books or other useful resources on creating a conscious relationship. In hindsight, this was a blessing for us, because the lack of outside resources forced us to take responsibility for learning what we most needed to know.

We began with a very big question: Is it possible to create a relationship in which we grow more loving toward each other at the same time as we grow more creative as individuals? We went in search of resources and role models, consulting many famous and lesser-known experts along the way, but we couldn’t find anyone who had the kind of relationship that really inspired us.

So, with no examples to guide us, our only alternative was to turn our relationship into a living laboratory. We committed to creating a new kind of relationship, and we also committed to learning from every interaction along the way. This commitment saw us through some tough times, and kept us from making the same mistakes over and over. The learning came fast and furious (sometimes very furious!) in those first few years together.

The beauty of such intense learning is that with each breakthrough we moved to a deeper feeling of love and connection with each other. We learned and practiced and persisted, and ultimately we found our way to an unimaginable state of bliss and fulfillment. The work definitely paid off. For example, it’s been well over ten years since either one of us has spoken a critical word to the other or had any kind of conflict. Instead of squandering energy through conflict, blame and criticism, we channel it into creativity and contribution. The feeling of loving connection has grown commensurate with our creativity. As a result, the feeling of our own individual independence has deepened as our love for each other has grown.

If all that sounds good to you, you’ve come to the right place! Here, we’ve laid out the sequence of learning-adventures that we took along the way. This is the relationship knowledge we wish we’d had when we began. Now, presented in a form anyone in the world can access, we offer you the concepts, tools and techniques you need for a lifetime of fulfillment in the most important area of life.

With love,

Kathlyn and Gay Hendricks, Co-Founders

Value

The Relationship University previously was offered through three separate DVD/CDs, costing $447 in all. Now, thanks to technology and the Internet, we are able to offer the program for only $4/week. Now, you get 24/7 access to the most comprehensive relationship-enhancement program available anywhere today, plus all the support materials you need to make your relationship dreams come true.

Take a closer look at all the resources you get:

Three Comprehensive Learning Sequences

  • The Relationship Problem-Solver
  • Passion And Sexuality
  • The Money Solution

Curriculum Sequence One

The Relationship Problem-Solver

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  • Introduction
  • Benefits Of The Relationship Problem-Solver
  • A Powerful Secret
  • How The Relationship Problem-Solver Works
  • Using The RPS
  • The Power Of Your Commitment
  • Getting Through Defensive Barriers
  • Introducing The Mood Shifter
  • How To Stop An Argument
  • The Mood Shifter At Work: APersonal Example
  • The Mood Shifter Creates A Miracle Zone
  • Radically Simple, Simply Radical
  • The Key To The Mood Shifter
  • Introducing The Conflict Dissolver
  • The Conflict Dissolver In Action
  • How The Conflict Dissolver Works
  • The Popcorn Effect
  • How To Use The Conflict Dissolver
  • A Life-Saving Example
  • Preventing Problems
  • How To Shift A Negative Mood
  • How To Connect Authentically With Another Person
  • How To Resolve Tension An Distance In A Close Relationship
  • How To Know Whether To Leave Or Stay
  • How To Feel Trust After A Wound Or Betrayal
  • How To Communicate Difficult Truths
  • How To Make And Get Commitments
  • How To Spot When Your Partner Is Lying
  • How To Eliminate Jealousy

Curriculum Sequence Two

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Passion And Sex

How To Thrive In Physical Intimacy

  • Introduction
  • The Differences Between Men And Women
  • Opening The Flow
  • How To Communicate With Women
  • How To Communicate With Men
  • Stepping Up The Level Of Appreciation
  • The First Secret
  • Where To Look For The Solution
  • The Big Questions That Change Everything
  • Rekindling Passion
  • Playing The Passion Scale
  • How To Stretch Your Relationship
  • The Best Stretching Rule
  • Essence Sex
  • How To Get To The Mountaintop
  • The Second Secret: Erasing The Painful Past
  • Facing And Feeling
  • The Three Core Feeling Zones
  • A Key Question About The Past
  • The Moment That Erases The Past
  • The Way Out
  • The Feeling Rule
  • Keeping Passion Alive
  • Wonder Vs. Routine
  • The Passion Awakener Rule
  • Open To Wonder, Or Rush To Be Right
  • One Couple's Leap
  • Putting It To The Test
  • When You're Not Growing At The Same Pace
  • Awakening Passion: What We All Need
  • Your Barriers To Sexual Enjoyment
  • Starting Deep Inside
  • The Breathing-Key To Passion And Sexuality
  • The Experience Of Awakening Deeper Passion
  • Going Deeper
  • Breath Of Love
  • Breath Of Love, Part 2

Curriculum Sequence Three

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The Money Solution

From Financial Struggle To Thriving Abundance

  • Money Problems Are Seldom About Money
  • The First Crucial Step
  • Your Goals
  • Your Unfinished Business
  • How We Made A Quantum Jump
  • Clearing Entanglements
  • Katie's Story
  • Introduction: The Control Dissolver
  • What Do Control Struggles Look Like?
  • Assessing Your Control Issues
  • Victimizer Or Victim?
  • The Control Dissolver
  • Your Money History
  • Your Money Personality And Why It's Important
  • How Your Gender Affects Your Money Personality
  • Thinking/Feeling And Other Splits
  • The Problem
  • How To Get Free
  • Power, Control And Resentment
  • Risk-Taker Or Risk-Avoider
  • Why Opposites Attract?
  • Approval And Money
  • The Creation Of Abundance In Yourself And Your Relationships: The Abundance Catalyst
  • Enlightened Perseverance
  • Looking Deeper
  • The Real Issue: Six Fears
  • Your Money Mythology
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